Making 2013 the year of living fabulously does not require jumping through hoops. Personally I hate jumping through hoops, walking on eggshells, or any other kind of extreme, anxiety-producing acrobats. Making this year phenomenal is about setting simple goals (no more than 3 please) and doing something each day to make it happen.

So here are a few steps, plus an example of what I did to set myself up to have a fearless and fabulous year.

How to Create a Fearless and Fabulous Year

Step 1 – remember, write, give thanks for 2012′s accomplishments, breakthroughs, and successes

Step 2 – think about, write down, give thanks for what you will try, achieve, and succeed in 2013

Step 3 – get a guide or partner to cheer you on through each goal

Step 4 – do it and document each accomplishment, success, and breakthrough

Example from the Pages of my Journal:

Step 1 – I am thankful for writing my book, No More Crumbs. It was a combination success and breakthrough for me. I’m thankful I’ve lived my goal for the year which was love and liberation. I learned what it means to truly love and live in freedom. I’m in the process of reconciling past relationships even though the process was painful.

Step 2 – I’m thankful for the wonderful cruise, cross country trip, and world travel my kids and I will take. I’m thankful for all the people I will help in my coaching programs. I’m thankful for the classes I will teach to help people succeed. I’m thankful for completing my certification course. I’m thankful the love of my life will manifest.

Step 3 – My guide is willing and available to me. I will get a coach to cheer me on and check in twice a month. I will start or join a mastermind group to keep me accountable.

Step 4 – I will do it and document it on my blog and in my journal.

Now it’s Your Turn

You can outline your year of living fabulously the way I did or in a different way. Some ideas include:

• Making a list
• Creating a vision board
• Journaling

However you decide to do it, make it something you will enjoy and follow through with.

Are you ready to declare 2013 as your year of living fearlessly and fabulously? Want to chat with me online for a free planning session? Leave a comment below and let me know the best day and time for you.

During the planning session I will take you step by step through the process again and answer your questions. Bring your question, a pen , and paper. I will also be available to be your cheerleader through the year to keep you motivated so you can live fabulously all year long!

Sometimes we think it’s only the low income women that end up in abusive relationships. That is far from the truth. Women in high profile careers, who are considered super intelligent are just as likely to get caught up with an abusive guy. Many women become single moms because their husband or significant other was abusive. They probably worked in great jobs and had a great life but Mr. Right turned out to be Mr. Wrong.

In the No More Crumbs Woman Series I am interviewing women who went from bad to blissful relationships. They had to deal with crummy guys who were toxic and abusive. But they didn’t stay to take more abuse. They decided they deserved more than crumbs; they deserved a yummy caked-filled life.

Sarah is the first person I interviewed. You can read her story here >> Sarah Chandrasekar, Engineer and Upscale Mom

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I’m giving away a million copies of my book, No More Crumbs, FREE on Kindle for 5 days from October 27-31. Why? Because it’s the last week of October and almost the end of Domestic Violence awareness month. But just because the month is over it doesn’t mean a woman, a child, a teenage girl’s nightmare ends. It takes courage to get help but sometimes there is just nowhere to turn. I can’t personally help all the victims of domestic violence but my heart goes out to them because I was one of them. But I can do something to help prevent it from happening to a million women and teen girls.

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