5 Ways to Tell If Your Are in a Committed Relationship

Today’s relationships are nothing like they were in the late 1900’s. Traditional values that once were the foundation of a committed relationship no longer play any significant role in those seen in today’s date.

For those that wish to know of whether the relationship they are in is considered as being exclusive by your significant other, then the mentioned below pointers or signs can help you better figure out where you stand in your relationship:

Mutual Time Spend TogetherPhoto Credit: Pexels.com

Whether it’s for a casual stroll in the park, time spent watching movies in the theatre, or even spend watching Netflix within the comfortable vicinity of your home for those that consider themselves to be introverts, spending a significant amount of time with your partner is an essential for a committed relationship.

In today’s fast-pacing life, time is the one commodity which cannot be bought, nor brought back. If your partner chooses to spend their precious time getting to know you better or opts for spending quality time with you more often, is an excellent sign of your relationship.

You Plan Your Future

Another first sign that you may be involved in a committed relationship includes both the partners altering or considering to change their life plan in accordance to ones that match each other or may be more convenient for the other. Single life is all about making decisions primarily based on your well-being and priorities.

While on the other hand, when in a relationship, if your significant other chooses to modify their plans by yours, you can consider your relationship to be a committed one.

You Make It Public

Making it public maybe 20 years ago involved introducing your partner to your parents or your friend’s circle; however, in today’s technologically advanced age, social media has taken over the role of making things go public.

A public shout-out to your bae, or your boo, in the world of social media, implies that your significant other is entirely comfortable with their respective family or friends circle knowing of your on-going relationship.

Mutual Vacationing

Vacationing together at your mutually desired location gives you a chance to create memories that can last an entire lifetime. On a more general note, no one wants to spend not only their time but also their hard-earned money alongside someone they may not consider as someone they are emotionally committed to.

Another way to test whether your significant other considers you as being exclusive, you may want to throw in the idea of going on a vacation together.

Talking About Bodily Functions

It may sound hilarious, but talking about bodily functions even if it may pertain to talking about an upset stomach can lead to creating a bond with the other that you may not have with those around you. The intimate conversations about your anatomy not only serve the purpose of sealing your relationship as more than just causal partners but also can be utilized as your occasional humorous story.

Most of all, it is communication that matters most. If you are unaware of where you may stand for your partner in their life right now then it is best to convey your feelings, thoughts, questions or emotions to your partner effectively via detailed communication.

Author Bio:

Mark was born and raised in New York. He is studying computer science to improve his knowledge about technology. Mark is an open-minded individual who loves exploring new ideas. He likes to review gadgets and outdoor products. Read his latest post on Make a Commitment with Promise Ring.

[Video Tutorial] How to Download and Make Extra Money with Dosh (Cashback App)

[Video Tutorial] How to Download and Make Extra Money with Dosh (Cashback App)

There are multiple ways to increase your wealth either passively or actively and either with money or time. Here are three ways to add a little (or lot) of moola to your bank account.

Stash Investing

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Make extra money with Fiverr just by offering a product or service to people who want it. It’s an easy side hustle to start because it doesn’t cost you anything but time and talent. Click the button below to sign up.

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Dosh CashBack

Passive income is easy with the Dosh App. You get money back when you shop, eat, or sleep at a hotel. I wish I had this a few months ago. You don’t have to do anything other than use your debit or credit card. Easy!

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7 Strategies to Win With Blog and Social Media Influencers

7 Strategies to Win With Blog and Social Media Influencers

Over the last 10 years, I’ve been a blogger in the mom blog/ lifestyle/ personal finance space. My reach is 100k+ across multiple networks. Not massive but not miniature either. I am the first single mom money blogger and I’ve worked with big and small brands on various campaigns.

I get email pitches every day that end up in the trash. Why? Because their pitches are self-serving trash! Yes, it sounds harsh but at the end of the day, I have to protect the integrity of the blog I built with blood, sweat, and tears. I also want to win too. Free stuff doesn’t pay my bills. #sorrynotsorry

FYI… Bloggers are not the same as journalist. We don’t get paid by a boss. We are the boss so we gotta make those coins too through paid promotions, placement, and advertising. Now that you have this background let me share my

7 Strategies to Win With Blog and Social Media Influencers

1. Start with knowing their name and niche.

Everyone loves the sound of their own name so, “Dear Mommy Blogger” gets trashed because you didn’t bother to find out my name. Does your Depend Underwear remotely fit with my makeup and lash blog? Umm, no! Know my niche before you pitch or your email gets ditched. 🤷🏽‍♀️

2. Offer value to them and their readers.

Remember the universal principle of WIFM (what’s in it for me?). It’s a real thing because nobody really cares about your product until you care about them.

3. Make their life easier.

Be clear about how you’d like to work together. It makes my brain hurt trying to figure out ambiguous emails. Spell it out. Be direct. If you reach second base, send what they ask for, respond within 24 hours, pay on time, read the guidelines.

4. Have a budget or irresistible offer (be prepared to pay to play).

It’s the reality of business. All serious businesses pay for promotion, right? Do you give your products and services for free as a business model? You’d be out of business in 6 months.

5. Promote the write-up.

Sharing on social media after you get a shoutout is the professional thing to do. You get extra points for adding my blog logo with link to the article to your, “As Seen On” section or media page.

6. Don’t expect free promotion (sorry I have to spell it out).

What have you done for me lately that entitles you to a free ride on the gravy train? 🤔 You have to pay to play outchea in these streets. You never know what $50-$150 can get you. Come with a check in hand instead of looking for a hand out. #thatisnotsexy

7. Make sure your product or service Educates. Inspires. Empowers.

If you give these things the money will follow because you gave the readers life-changing value. If it’s self-serving it gets passed over.

Educate a consumer and you gain a customer so teach them, give them advice, make their lives better. They will gladly buy your product because you showed them how it solves their problem. Understand?

Bonus: Build a relationship

Bloggers can be your biggest/ best advocates. Follow up. Work with them again. Use their services (writing, marketing, design, etc.). It might be a match made in heaven.

I hope this was helpful and gives you insight into working with Influencers.

It’s not rocket science so don’t complicate the process.

👉 I’m putting together a resource to help you even more. If you would like it, click the link below to tell me more about your business and I’ll send it to you when it’s ready. 😘 RichSingleMomma.com/influencers

10 Ways Divorce can Affect your Credit

10 Ways Divorce can Affect your Credit

As nearly half of the American population already knows, divorce is a difficult, emotional process to go through. This difficulty can be compounded depending on the number of years a couple has been together, the dollar amount of their acquired assets, and whether or not they have any children.

Divorce can also have an impact on your credit, though the proceedings themselves are not the reason for this. In other words, couples shouldn’t expect their credit scores to plummet the second they file for divorce. However, there are things that occur during divorce that can have a negative impact on credit. Here are 10 ways in which a divorce could affect your credit score:

Having to refinance your home
In order to move a property into one person’s name, it may be necessary to refinance your mortgage. As with any refinance situation, this will require a hard credit inquiry, and may also potentially add a great deal of new debt for one person.

The splitting of the debt was uneven
When assets are divided, one person may get to take more of the income, property, or assets, but also more of the debt. It all just depends on how the debt is divided.

Going from two incomes to one
If possible, it’s helpful to examine finances before a divorce and determine new budgets for both parties, so as to avoid falling behind on any bills or payments. Many divorced individuals report that losing another person’s income made the single greatest impact on them financially. Setting up a new budget early on can help avoid this issue.

Not disclosing all debt during the proceedings
At some point during the divorce process, both parties are required to disclose their financial accounts. However, as former spouses sometimes learn, not everyone is truthful about these assets. Running a credit report is the best way to ensure you’re aware of every account bearing your name.

One party doesn’t pay his or her agreed-upon share
Most courts are willing to work with couples to help them discuss and agree on a payment plan for shared assets, such as a home or any jointly-owned property.

One party still has access to the other party’s accounts
In the event that divorcing spouses do not split their joint accounts, both parties will still be responsible for any additional charges. It’s best to split any joint accounts as soon as possible.

Credit limits are decreased
Many creditors regularly check up on their clients to see if there has been a salary change, and most credit card agreements state that limits can be decreased at the creditor’s discretion. If one spouse was making more money than the other, and the accounts are separated, a credit card company can choose to lower the limits for one or both spouses. This can, in turn, affect credit scores, as well as catapult credit card holders to their maximum limits very quickly.

The divorce turns ugly
While no one enjoys going through divorce, the best solution is to try and remain civil to one another, lowering the risk of spouses doing financial harm to one another out of spite.

There is confusion over the divorce decree
People can often be confused about their financial responsibility as stated in the divorce decree. If you are unsure of where you stand or what you must pay, consult your attorney, family court facilitator, or mediator.

Spouses don’t work together
Sometimes, electric bills can be overlooked or go unpaid. Keeping the divorce process as amicable as possible helps parties communicate with one another over their shared financial responsibility after the households have been completely separated. Working together ensures everyone’s credit remains in good standing.

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Goodbye Broke Hello Prosperity

Goodbye Broke Hello Prosperity

This is was my mantra that changed my life back in 2012. I was tired of being broke and feeling like I would never see the light of day when it came to financial freedom. But this phase came to my mind when I started the journey of freeing my mind from old beliefs and embracing a new way of thinking.

For some people, it’s not an issue to think wealth, prosperity, or abundance, but for me, it was a challenge. For my entire life, all I knew was lack and limitation. I didn’t know that I was allowed to think differently, to expect plenty, or that I could dare hope to be wealthy.

The process of changing my mindset was long. Sometimes I still fall back into old thinking but I quickly recover. What helped me was my love of research and reading coupled with problem-solving.

Being Poor and/or Broke is a Problem

You see, being poor was a problem. It was stressful, embarrassing, and no fun at all! When my friends wanted to go on trips or just out for a simple meal I had to make excuses for why I couldn’t go or pinch pennies to make it happen. It was deeply stressful and I hated every minute of it, but I felt trapped by my upbringing and the religious voices in my head that said, “It’s easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven”. Words straight from the bible that had me suck in a rut of poverty mentality.

I later learned that scripture was misquoted to keep people in bondage to fear and scarcity. I was tired and I wanted to be free so I began my quest to find the truth about wealth and prosperity. I read books I never thought I’d read in a million years. I listened to audio books and watched YouTube videos. I had to find the answers I was seeking.

I came across books like The Science of Getting Rich, Think and Grow Rich, The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity, and so many more. I read them all and my mind began to shift. I stopped believing I was born to be poor and began believing I was born to be rich! Goodbye Broke. Hello Prosperity!!!

I’ve decided that I want to help my friends adopt the same mantra that I did a few years ago. It transformed my life so now I don’t scrape by and pinch pennies anymore. It’s not necessary. I’m living a good life and growing prosperous every day. I went from broke to blessed in my mind first, then in my bank account. I don’t struggle with bills, giving my kids what they need, or helping others. (Did you see my Cash App Giveaway on Instagram Thanksgiving week?)

Go From Broke to Blessed!

When you decide to say, Goodbye Broke. Hello Prosperity!,

  • You can finally pay all the bills and have more money at the end of the month. Pssst…It’s called residual income.
  • You can invest in Bitcoin or the stock market like I have.
  • You can take the vacations you’ve always wanted to go on.
  • You can fix your credit and increase your score so you can buy a house or new care.
  • You can finally sleep at night because you are not worried about how you are going to make ends meet.

How? Join my mastermind group and get all the tools you need to go from broke to blessed.

The Goodbye Broke. Hello Prosperity! Mastermind

The Goodbye Broke. Hello Prosperity! Mastermind is created for you. You will be connected to women who are in the same boat; learning and growing just like you. You will have the support, encouragement, and accountability to release your old way of think and begin thinking in a new way.

Who this Mastermind isn’t for…

This mastermind is not for everyone. If you prefer complaining, are happy where you are, skeptical, or messy, this mastermind is not for you. If you are afraid to take a risk on your life, afraid of changing the status quo, stuck in a depressed state, or are having trouble letting go of the past it’s not the time for you to join.

Who this Mastermind is for…

But if you are actively searching for change, you want to learn and grow, you feel a call to something better, you’ve invested in a course or program in the last two years, you are willing to show up and do the work, and you have hidden talents you want to exploit, then this mastermind is for you.

You will get access to videos, live sessions with me, and resources that will help you fix your finances, plug any leaks, update your skills, and put you on the path to six-figures or more.

When does it begin?

This is a year-long program that begins January 14, 2018. We will start with a Financial Vision Board Party to create a picture of what you want your financial life to be by the end of the year. It is a powerful exercise you will use over and over again for other parts of your life including love, health, and career.

Are you ready to get started? This program can easily go for $2500 or even $5000 because the content alone will set you up for success for the rest of your life. But I want it to be accessible to single moms who need a break. Believe me, I’ve been there so I know the struggle sometimes. But I also want it to feel like a true investment so you feel the incentive to do the work too! I’ve paid thousands for programs because I wanted the value the experts were giving me.

What’s the investment?

Payment plans are available so you can manage the payments each month. This program is $450 for the year for early birds. Yes, you read that correctly. It’s only $450 to become a member of the Goodbye Broke. Hello Prosperity! Mastermind before December 31, 2017. You can do one payment or up to 12 payments ($37.50 monthly).

How do I join this money transformation program?

Select the payment option below to register now. The early bird cart will close at midnight December 31, 2017, so lock in the rate because it will go up to $750 ($62.50 monthly) on January 1, 2018.

I’m excited to have you in the Goodbye Broke Hello Prosperity mastermind group. I know we are going to have fun learning and growing together in 2018 and beyond.

 

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