I heard a long time ago that one of the reasons some families remain wealthy is because of insurance. The father (or mother) makes sure there is adequate insurance to cover the funeral and the lose of their income. There is often multiple policies in place to make site the family never has to worry about money.
You are probably wondering why I am talking about insurance and death right? Its because my uncle passed away on Friday. He was a good man; kind, funny, and always smiling. But he had been sick for the last couple of years. This illness left him financially devastated and his family unprepared for his death.
There is no insurance to cover the funeral service and burial, so the family has to rely on the kindness of others to help cover the expenses. It’s good for people to help, but insurance usually covers all this. It takes the financial burden out of the equation so the family has time to mourn.
This scenario is an example for everyone, especially single moms. We are solely responsible for the welfare of our children so it is important to have life insurance to cover funeral expenses. The insurance should also cover the lose of yearly income three or four times over.
A friend of mine had already taken care of her funeral expenses so her family doesn’t have to worry about it. Making these decisions while you are still alive is an option that can save your family time and expense. It relieves them of the burden of planning.
I know all this may sound morbid but the reality is death is a part of life. We are born, we live, than we die. My uncle’s death just makes it very relevant for me right now.
I must get life insurance for myself as well as look into pre-planned funeral services. I’m sure there is a lot to think about and options to consider when choosing a service. I have had my will drawn up so that’s a step in the right direction. I also need to get short and long-term disability insurance. All this is important to good financial health for you and the children you may leave behind (God forbid).
Do you have life insurance? Is it enough to cover funeral expenses and provide 3-4 times your yearly income? Do you have disability insurance? Do you have a will?
Samantha A. Gregory is an author, consultant, and speaker. She’s a single-mom lifestyle, money, and parenting expert featured in The Washington Post, The New York Times, Essence Magazine, HuffPost, ABC News, and Mint.com.
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